Just a recap of my day. Nothing too big.
There weren't any water bottles in the house, so I had to go to the supermarket at 9 pm to get some. A surprising amount of people shopping at night.
I was at the store buying food with friends today. You know, camping food such as chips, chocolate, booze. Just kidding, no booze. Anyway, we were at the check-out line when the cashier says, "Oh. Yeah, this woman accidentally bought some of your stuff." We were like, What? "Are these your things?" the cashier asked. They were ours. "This woman accidentally bought some of your things. That's why you put the rubber down." What happened was that we had put the rubber bar down after the lady's things, but before the cashier finished checking-out everything, we had picked it up and moved it behind the rest of our things. The cashier seemed a bit annoyed. My friend said to me, "Why is she being so mean to us?" But she wasn't being mean, not really. She was annoyed, definitely, and a bit condescending. I said, "It's okay. Guys, it's okay." I felt like the only adult in my group of friends who reacted appropriately to the accidental situation. It also helped that the lady who bought our things was very, very nice about it, and she perfectly understood the whole thing was an accident. She seemed embarrassed more than angry; she was smiling sheepishly a lot. The lady had to go to customer service to clear the charges on her card, and my other friend had to go with her. After that had been settled, the cashier seemed to relax. We chatted for a bit, friendly even, and that was that.
Packing all these things for camping is really tiresome.
Deadlifted today. New personal record (I think) of 245 lbs. That was cool.
I had a text conversation with someone really cool today. I've known
her for years, yet I've never had a direct conversation with her. She's wonderfully special, quite weird, and really cute. She's just about the sweetest thing in the world, and despite her struggles in life, she makes the best of what she has. At her core, a lovely, lively human being. I think you'd like her.
It's strange, but I'm not really good at text conversation. Why is that strange? I don't know. Considering my levels of social skills, it shouldn't be surprising.
The only time I text is when I'm planning something with my friends, or when I'm confirming plans. I don't know how to converse with text. It feels like I force everything.
Communicating with people is weird. The method of communication can dictate the boundaries of connection, and when that changes, the connection must adapt to fit the new methods of communication. Otherwise, what? I don't know. Rather, I don't want to really think about it.
This method of communication - blogging - is only one way to get to know somebody. Any worthwhile communication takes time and patience. For me, I try my best to improve - slowly, but surely.
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ReplyDeleteThe cashier lady was probably just tired of being at work, doing the same thing over and over again all day. I get like that too, like annoyed with the customers, although I try not to show it because we're supposed to be nice. Yesterday there was this lady, and I was getting her fried chicken, and she was like "No, I don't want that piece of chicken! I want THAT piece!!" And like yelling at me. Well I'm sorry, lady, make your own freaking chicken next time.
How dare you call me quite weird! haha just kidding. It's hard having text conversations because texts generally have to be short, and I for one am sort of slow at texting anyway. haha.
Geeze, that sucks. It must be really tiring dealing with people. I feel bad when cashiers look miserable, yet also when they're overly-happy because I know there's a good chance they're pretending to be that way.
DeleteOne situation I don't like though is when I'm polite, and they're flippant about my politeness. Or they ignore me as much as possible. They just want to do the job and leave. But when you're dealing with people, it's not so easy.
They don't care about me. To them, I'm the thousandth customer they've seen today. I shouldn't care whether or not some cashier treats me nicely; it won't affect my day. So I don't. I'm always polite because that's just how you should treat people.
Then again, some customers are just plain assholes.
Yep, a lot of times you're just another customer they're trying to get rid of.
ReplyDeleteRemember that story you shared about running out of McDonald's to tell that old guy he left his cup of coffee on his car? Imagine doing that for hundreds of people, 8 hours a day, 5 days a week. Eventually you reach a point where no matter how sweet or nice the person is, you still are just thinking, "WHY CAN'T YOU JUST REMEMBER TO PUT YOUR COFFEE IN YOUR CAR????!!!!"
It's like that.
It's not THAT bad...It's just not something I enjoy, and I have a bad attitude about it.
ReplyDeleteGET A BETTER ATTITUDE, SARAH.
Young lady, I won't tolerate yelling on my blog. Apologize to yourself right this instant. You don't deserve to be abused by You in such a way. Heaven knows I do too much of that to myself already. We don't need two sad sacks around here.
DeleteBut to be serious, don't beat yourself up too much about it, okay? You're pretty great as you are, attitude and all.